Don’t Buy Her A Gift…

According to the movies and stories passed down over the decades, courtship in Africa, specifically Nigeria was rather a funny and awkward exercise; one that still influences how relationships pan out in present day society. In those days when a man became of age and his elders deemed it time for him to get married, … Continue reading Don’t Buy Her A Gift…

Life Like A Movie

You know how psychology tries to explain how the male-female mind works in different situations? Well I've had enough of it. They say women make room for their emotions and as such carry hand bags; and men compartmentalize, hence carry a wallet. Men are physical beings; women are emotional beings. Men like to have sex; … Continue reading Life Like A Movie

Love is hardwork

That one moment in your life when you realise you've just met that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. The rush of emotions; the initial confusion, trying to come to terms with the sudden realisation or make it go away. That feeling of breathlessness when the object is near. … Continue reading Love is hardwork

Romantic relationships: Understanding the opposite sex.

A couple of weeks ago I lost touch with a friend…a male friend. Of all the problems we had, one seemed to stand out: somehow we (or one of us did) let emotions take centre stage. That single unconscious act alone became the seed that eventually germinated to reproduce many issues that led to our … Continue reading Romantic relationships: Understanding the opposite sex.